as tempting as that is i think i should pass that's crazy though, didn't know love potions could be real
we've already got a good thing going, we were best friends first that's got to be a good foundation, right? so how do i keep that and make sure i don't screw it up?
i mean, that's super not great for you sorry but that means you can tell me what NOT to do on dates and that's just as important as what to do on dates!
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did you put him in prison? then probably don't date him.
if he went to prison and you weren't involved? eh. law enforcement is the worst.
you already live together, well. havent been in that situation. it's a red flag if they move in with you right after you start dating, bad move. trust me on that one
only problem there would be if you break up or something and then don't have anywhere to go to get away from him if that happens, you can bunk at my place. we got some beds in the basement. if you don't mind sharing with a lizard guy
thanks for the offer i still got my treehouse greenhouse though, so i'm good on places to stay if i gotta go somewhere not that i'm expecting to Varian and i like living together, we got a good thing going
doesn't have to be hard look, i've been around for a long time. been with a lot of different people people weed themselves out pretty fast you'll figure out the ones worth caring about
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i'll make ya one. really lock this person in.
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that's crazy though, didn't know love potions could be real
we've already got a good thing going, we were best friends first
that's got to be a good foundation, right?
so how do i keep that and make sure i don't screw it up?
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i dunno, kid. you think i had luck on dates? i only got luz, king, and hooty back home, and i made hooty.
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i mean, that's super not great for you
sorry
but that means you can tell me what NOT to do on dates
and that's just as important as what to do on dates!
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what not to do.... well, don't threaten this kid with jail time if they don't want to date you, for one.
don't stalk them
don't get clingy
don't propose to them right away
don't move in with them right away
don't move in with them then make them do all your housework. seriously.
don't tell them that someone else's fancy house is your house only then the owner comes home and they're a minotaur that you used to date.
that one was rough.
don't expect them to be someone they're not. if you don't like who they are, don't date them, period.
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but you're a good kid. you won't do that stuff. and if you do, well. i warned ya
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uhhh
what happens if he's already been to prison
and if we already live together
we split the housework though
i mean, when either of us actually bothers to do it
[They are teenage boys, after all.]
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if he went to prison and you weren't involved? eh. law enforcement is the worst.
you already live together, well. havent been in that situation. it's a red flag if they move in with you right after you start dating, bad move. trust me on that one
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well we started back when we were still best friends
he had died and i moved in to help him recuperate and then i just kind of never left
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only problem there would be if you break up or something and then don't have anywhere to go to get away from him
if that happens, you can bunk at my place. we got some beds in the basement.
if you don't mind sharing with a lizard guy
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thanks for the offer
i still got my treehouse greenhouse though, so i'm good on places to stay if i gotta go somewhere
not that i'm expecting to
Varian and i like living together, we got a good thing going
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what're you worried about with all this? you're both good kids. just keep being good kids. i don't want to have to pick a side
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um well we don't have a lot of experience with relationships
and we're both good at screwing stuff up
so we want to try avoiding that
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[ Wow that sounds like a set up for a joke and I can't figure out a punchline-- ONWARD ]
just do what you want do. enjoy each other. break it off when it gets bad and try to be friends again
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there's a lot more big emotions with a relationship
also you want to kiss the other person a lot
you make it sounds so easy
and also casual
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doesn't have to be hard
look, i've been around for a long time. been with a lot of different people
people weed themselves out pretty fast
you'll figure out the ones worth caring about
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i guess you're right
i hope Varian and i have already gotten past that point
we've been through a lot together
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sounds like you know what you want to do
you're going to do fine. relationships really don't have to be that hard
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ok yeah
going to do fine
[He's just going to repeat that to himself a few times. Out loud.]
thanks
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and my offer stands. things don't work out, you have a place to go.
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